The most important part of this is to do some soul searching and ask yourself if YOU are really DONE?
If so, this will be easy. If not, you must first resolve that.
If you have no lingering feelings and have no intention of ever kissing, seeing, or being with that person ever again, then here’s what to do.
- Send a VERY CLEAR message. This is not the time for nuance.Depending on how persistent and annoying they’ve been, you’ll need to increase the level of harshness.
This should also include a very specific note about the future including how you will respond. For example: “Please do not ever contact me again. Not only do I have no interest in ever speaking to you again, but the sight of your name actively makes me disgusted. Hopefully you get the hint in this message but in case you don’t please note that I will simply copy and paste this message to you in any subsequent communications from you. Please go away, never to return, and may god protect any future partners you have in your lifetime.”
You get the point, and they should too. If you are truly done and have nothing remaining, and they’re not getting the point, DROP THE HAMMER.
- Block them.You should be able to easily block their number from texting or calling. You can filter their emails as spam. You can block them on social media.If you are totally done, this makes things nice and easy.
That’s all. It’s quite simple. Deal with them exactly as you would any other nuisance that you want nothing to do with ever again.