Everyone struggles to open a conversation. The problem is that most people just resort to “hi” “hey” “hello” or a terrible pick up line. The key is to stand out.
If you’re a man, you have to realize that she gets a ridiculous number of messages. If you’re a woman, you have to realize that he’s used to sending the opening line, so cleverness goes a long way.
These might help…
Wait a day
Wait one day after you’ve matched and say: “Hey do you remember that time that you swiped right on me? I remember it like it was yesterday.”
Grabbing a drink is so boring
Instead of asking them out for drinks or coffee, get creative…and oddly specific.
“So are we going to go get some waffles, or what?
“Hey, what do you say we go get two grande caramel macchiatos and take a walk to get to know one another. #BasicButFun
“What are your thoughts on rock climbing as a first date, followed by BBQ. Or if you’re vegan…celery?”
The point is to have fun and ask about something different.
“Hey I read your entire profile and I think you made a mistake, you didn’t mention my name once ;)”