Men are traditionally the ones to start, but get over your fear of texting first. Much like worrying about how much time you should wait in between texts, this one is the same idea: it doesn’t much matter.
What matters is WHAT you say.
Don’t text first and ask him if he wants kids.
Don’t text him first and tell him you’re horny…even if you’re horny.
Don’t text him first and tell him that he’s “just your type”…even if he is.
Take a minute, decide if you really want to text first and if you do, go for it. Typically when texting a guy you can just say “hi there” or “hey you.” Most guys don’t care too much whether you’ve read our profile. Much like you, a guy will write back if he’s interested. So all you have to decide is whether you’re ok with the possibility that he doesn’t write back…you know, like most guys go through everyday 😉
Stop worrying about rules, and instead think about frameworks. And if you don’t know what I’m talking about, you haven’t watched the course, so clearly you’re missing out.